A good night's sleep is essential for physical and mental health, but did you know that the right bed frame and mattress can also improve your sex life? As human beings, we spend about one-third of our lives in bed. While most of that time is spent sleeping, many people also engage in other activities such as reading, watching TV, and yes, having sex.
When it comes to sex, the right bed frame can make all the difference. In this blog, we'll explore the best bed frames for sex so that you can make the most of your intimate moments.
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Also, a comfortable mattress can provide the support and cushioning you need to explore different positions and achieve maximum pleasure, although the frame is vitally important as it has to be sturdy and secure enough for those with an active and vigorous sex life.
So, the key is to find a sturdy frame that suits your needs and a mattress to match. On that subject, we have some great news for you: Homesdirect365 has an excellent range of bed frames and mattresses to choose from. We are confident that you'll discover the perfect frame that will enhance those special, intimate times.
Choosing The Right Bed Frame
Personal taste has a big role to play here, although there are several key issues to watch out for, as we shall discover.
On the whole, the best bed frames for sex are those that are sturdy, supportive, and comfortable. They should also be easy to clean and maintain. Here are a few things to keep in mind when choosing a bed frame for sex:
- Sturdy: The bed frame should be sturdy enough to support your weight and the weight of your partner. Modern standard bed frames are built to take about 500 lbs in weight. The weight capacity will depend on the material the frame is made from, and you can find out more below. Your frame should also be able to withstand vigorous activity without squeaking or wobbling, and it should certainly not be in danger of breaking.
- Supportive: The bed frame should provide good support for your back and neck. This will help you to stay comfortable during sex and avoid any injuries. Every year, thousands of people suffer from pulled backs, stiff necks, twisted muscles, and - in extreme cases - broken bones (usually from falling off the bed!) whilst engaging in sexual activity, often due to a bed frame or mattress that isn't up to the task.
- Comfortable: The bed frame should be comfortable to lie on. That is, it should be the right height for you and your partner, and it should have a surface that is soft and supportive. The material makes a lot of difference; a cold metal frame might not be conducive to a romantic or pleasurable experience when in contact with bare skin! Even so, don't rule out metal frames as they can be great when used with care.
- Easy to clean: The bed frame should be easy to clean and maintain. This is important because sex can become a little messy at times, and you'll want to be able to clean your bed frame without any fuss. Keep this in mind when considering something like an upholstered platform bed or a fabric-covered headboard and footboard as the material should be easy to clean and remain stain-free.
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With this in mind, let's continue and explore the materials used along with examples of different styles.
Metal Bed Frames
Metal beds are a good choice for sex because it is typically sturdy and provides good support. Usually made from iron, steel or brass, metal frames are also very easy to clean and maintain.
When choosing a metal frame, always go for a high-quality item as low-grade steel bed frames may not be able to take the weight and will warp over time. Keep in mind, though, that a good quality heavy-duty steel frame will be difficult to move around if you move house. That sturdy steel frame isn't going to budge easily, so be warned!
Wooden Bed Frames
Wood bed frames are a good choice for sex for those who prefer a more traditional look, although there's also plenty of choice if you like modern furniture. They are also very sturdy and provide good support, but it's wise to check all the screws and locking nuts once in a while to make sure that everything is tightened. Joints can loosen over time, especially with the regular rocking motions of frequent vigorous activity.
Now let's look at style and design in our modern beds range...
Platform Bed Frames
A platform bed frame is a good choice for sex because it is very sturdy, provides good support and is also generally easy to clean and maintain. Platform beds are usually made up of a wood or metal base with wooden slats running from side to side. In most cases, the mattress sits within the frame where it is held snuggly, so you need to make sure it's a good fit! See further down for more advice.
Platform beds are a popular choice for people who want a modern and minimalist look in their bedroom. These frames have a low profile, which makes them perfect for sex: you won't have to worry too much about your partner getting injured by falling off the bed, and there's no need to climb up onto a high platform to get things started. Platform bed frames also tend to be very stable and don't tend to move too much, which is important when you're engaging in robust sexual activity.
They are also an excellent alternative to box spring beds as they allow you extra storage space underneath if required. Box springs are available with storage space built in, but these can be very expensive.
In the Homesdirect365 wood platform bed collection, you'll find some exquisite styles, including the following:
- Marlborough White Metal Frame - Oozing classic style, this frame has extra legs beneath for additional support. The pipework design is finished in antique white with antique brass finials for a nostalgic touch of class.
- The Sorrento Range - Choose from cappuccino crushed velvet or pink chenille to add a dash of glamour to your boudoir! The deep-button tufting and fabric offer a seductive feel to the entire frame, including the high headboard.
- The Estelle Range - These are for people who enjoy luxury and opulence, and they'll certainly inflame your passions. Forming only a small part of our classic French antique range, they are expertly handmade and hand carved to a high standard, liberally decorated with ornate detail in classic French splendour. Colours include silver or antique white, with champagne crushed velvet on the headboard.
Estelle Antique French Style Bed
Upholstered Bed Frames
An upholstered bed frame is a good choice for sex if you want a more comfortable surface to lie on. Fabric and leather beds are also fairly easy to clean and maintain as long as the situation is dealt with in a timely manner (see our other blog on how to clean a fabric headboard).
Aside from the examples above, Homesdirect365 has plenty of others to offer...
- The Sloane Range - Choose from green, blue or grey plush velvet with these stunning beds and their high, cushioned headboards. Modern-looking and appealing, they are perfect for the contemporary couple looking for a sturdy bed frame that's great for relaxing and for intimate fun.
- The Prado Faux Leather Bed Frame - Available in black or brown, this is a good bed frame for the adventurous, as there's less risk of bumps and scrapes on the frame wood. It fits well into the contemporary category and would grace any modern bedroom. The faux leather also encourages a sexy atmosphere.
- The Burlington - The name itself conjures images of four-star hotels! This is a contemporary classic, with a solid wood headboard and footboard finished in midnight grey. This bed features an upholstered headboard for extra comfort and style - there'll be no risk of anyone's head bumping against wood whilst in the throes of passion!
Be sure to check out our French fabric beds and French crushed velvet beds too!
Sleigh Frames
Sleigh bed frames have a distinctive curved design that adds a touch of elegance to any bedroom. These French beds are usually made of wood, which gives them a classic and timeless look. Sleigh bed frames tend to be larger than other types of bed frames, which can give you and your partner plenty of room to move around. Additionally, the curved design of the headboard and footboard can provide support and stability during sex.
On the Homesdirect365 store, you'll find several superb examples, including:
- The Sleigh Antique French-style bed - With a tasteful mid-mahogany finish, this frame is deceptively large without overwhelming the room. The elegant curves and scrolling provide adequate detail without being too fussy, making a sturdy bed frame that won't let you down when it matters most. The thick wooden slats are joined by a fabric strip that stops the mattress sliding.
- Montpellier Blanc Sleigh Bed - This is another example in the antique-French style, this time crafted from mindi wood with a whitewashed finish and with a cream fabric headboard and footboard. Soft, seductive and aesthetically pleasing, this wooden bed frame is surely a contender!
- Bakersfield White/Grey Sleigh Bed - Set on attractive bun-style feet, the Bakersfield offers stable and comfortable support. The tall headboard gives a sense of solidity and security, and this is enhanced by the lack of a footboard. This is a shabby chic classic that offers the freedom to move around as you wish.
Bakersfield Grey Antique French Style Sleigh Bed
Canopy Frames & Four Poster Beds
Canopy bed frames and classic four poster beds have a romantic and luxurious feel, which can add to the mood during intimate moments. These frames have a post in each corner that can support a canopy or drapery, which creates a sense of privacy and intimacy. Canopy bed frames also tend to be larger than other types of bed frames, which can give you and your partner plenty of room to move around. If you're looking for a bed frame that's both functional and aesthetically pleasing, a canopy bed frame or four poster bed may be the perfect choice.
There are plenty of options to consider in the Homesdirect365 online store, including:
- Boho Retreat/Boutique - Love contemporary designs? Then this could be just the thing! This impressive four poster has a crisp symmetry that lends a modern feel to any bedroom. Available in a brown or black finish, it is capped off by geometric detailing on the high headboard.
- The Lincoln Four Poster Antique French-Style - Standing proudly on square feet, the Lincoln is a stunning example and is ideal for love-making. Each post is intricately carved, and the whole frame is expertly crafted with ornate carvings and finished in antique white or natural mahogany for a spectacular effect. Poles are included on every side if you wanted to fit curtains for that extra touch of luxury and romance.
- Barley Twist Four Poster Antique French-Style - This is one example of our four posters where the uprights aren't joined together at the top. The posts look decidedly phallic, which can foster feelings of a sexual nature. Made from hand-carved mahogany with a stunning headboard, these are a beautiful addition to the bedroom and a great place to indulge your fantasies.
Lincoln Four Poster Antique French Style Bed
Adjustable Frames
Adjustable bed frames are a relatively new type of bed frame that allows you to adjust the height and angle of the bed. This can be particularly useful during sex, as it allows you to find the perfect angle and position for maximum pleasure. Adjustable bed frames also tend to be very sturdy and durable, which is important when you're engaging in vigorous activity. If you're looking for a bed frame that can be customised to your needs, an adjustable bed frame may be the way to go.
No matter what your individual needs are, there is a bed frame out there that is perfect for sex. With so many great options to choose from, you're sure to find the perfect bed frame to help you take your sex life to the next level.
It's worth noting here that these are usually specialist beds, often bought from stores that cater for people with mobility issues. However, more people are discovering the benefits of adjustable beds even if they don't have any health problems or disabilities; it allows you the freedom to change your sleeping position without affecting your partner, as well as adding to the fun you can have in your sex life.
As these become more widely available, Homesdirect365 will probably investigate the possibility of adding these to our huge range of furniture, as we always like to keep on top of things...
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Weight Capacity
You'll find that most bed frames are sold with a recommended weight limit, and it's never a good idea to exceed this. So, when choosing your ideal bed frame for sex, combine your own weight and your partner's and include the weight of your mattress, then add a few extra pounds for good measure to get a rough idea and match this against the weight capacity of any frame that takes your fancy.
The last thing you need is for the frame to give way and collapse in the middle of your love-making!
Here's a guide to the weight capacity for each type of material:
- Metal Frames - A good quality metal bed frame can usually take around 500 lbs although a heavy-duty steel construction can handle as much as 4,400 lbs.
- Wooden Frames - A high-quality wooden frame can generally take between 900 lbs and 1,500 lbs.
What does this mean in real life?
Well, most wooden beds will be able to comfortably take the weight of two people, provided the load is evenly spread (that is, one on each side of the mattress). So, a regular bed frame will easily take the weight of two average-sized* occupants sleeping side by side.
*That's about 13 stone for a man and 11 stone for a woman. Don't worry too much if you exceed this, as good-quality beds can easily handle a couple of people weighing a total of 75 stone!
The trouble starts when the combined weight of the occupants is concentrated on one area, and this can be more of an issue with wooden slats. To ensure that there are no nasty accidents, look for a bed that has thick, wide wood slats that will bear the load well.
Bed Frame Height
In the past, beds tended to be pretty high off the ground - especially for the well-off members of society. In some cases, they needed steps to get into bed! Some beds were more than three feet (about a metre) in height, and while this might appeal to some people it's not always safe or practical.
Today, while there's no actual standard height as such, it's generally accepted that most beds are between 24 and 25 inches off the floor (including the mattress).
However, the ideal bed height really depends on how tall you are. If your legs dangle without touching the floor when you sit on the bed, it may be a little too high. And if your knees rise above hip level, then it's probably too low!
The style of the bed often determines the height to some extent, so this must be taken into consideration. Low beds came into fashion in the world of interior design as they add a sense of space and volume to the bedroom, effectively raising the ceiling height.
If you already have a high ceiling, then a tall bed frame won't take away from this, while a very low bed may throw out the sense of proportion and make the space seem enormous. While you might not think that this has any bearing on your sex life, psychology does influence mood; someone who feels intimidated or uncomfortable by their surroundings might not feel like engaging in love-making. It's worth taking the time to plan the interior design of your bedroom carefully to encourage a romantic or erotic atmosphere, and that includes choosing the right bed frame.
There's also the question of safety: falling off a bed that's too high could result in serious injury!
Of course, in the end, it all comes down to personal preference, but it's important to think about the height and get a bed frame that's easy to climb in and out of without straining your joints. If you and your partner are of very different heights, it's best to go for one that's somewhere in the middle.
Quiet Bed Frame
A squeaking bed can be very distracting and annoying. They can also lead to embarrassing situations if guests, housemates or kids are within hearing range!
So, always look for the quietest bed frames you can find.
But how do you go about finding beds that don't squeak? First of all, don't get a traditional box spring bed! Box springs are notorious for squeaking, especially during an enthusiastic sex session.
What you need is something like a good quality solid wood or solid steel frame. Look for something without the typical side frame wood or springs, as these can be the worst culprits.
To keep your bed noise-free, add a foam or latex mattress. That's not to say that you can't buy a traditional spring mattress if you wish, it's just that they are less likely to be noise-free.
To keep the actual bed frame squeak-free, whether it's wood or metal, always ensure that it is put together properly and keep the nuts, bolts and screws tightened. You might want to apply WD-40 to the joints to stifle any creaking sounds. Adequate lubrication is always important...
Check out some of our examples on the Homesdirect365 online store to find the quietest bed frame!
Choosing The Right Mattress
Now you've picked the best quiet bed frame, you need to think about the mattress.
When choosing a mattress for sex, it's important to consider your individual needs and preferences. Some people prefer a firm mattress that provides good support, while others prefer a softer mattress that is more comfortable for cuddling. It's also important to think about the type of sex you typically have. If you enjoy vigorous activities, you'll need a mattress that can withstand a lot of movement.
If you're not sure what type of mattress is right for you, here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Firmness: The ideal firmness for a mattress for sex is medium-firm. This will provide enough support to keep you from sinking into the mattress, but it will also be soft enough to be comfortable.
- Motion isolation: If you share a bed with a partner, you'll want a mattress that isolates motion well. This will help to reduce disturbance so that both of you can get a good night's sleep (when the love-making is over!). Memory foam mattresses are a good choice here.
- Edge support: A good mattress for sex will have good edge support, increasing the 'useable space' on the bed. This will help to prevent you from rolling off the bed during vigorous activities.
- Cooling: If you tend to get hot during sex, you'll want a mattress that has good cooling properties. This will help to keep you comfortable and prevent you from getting overheated.
Whichever one you go for, you might want to consider applying foam-padded tape to stop it from slipping off the metal slats or wooden slats on the bed frame.
Mattress Sizes
The main aspect of choosing a mattress is getting the right size for your frame, and this can be a challenge as there is no universal guide to UK mattress sizes! This means that if you buy a king-size mattress from one supplier, it might have different dimensions than one from another supplier. Some manufacturers also suggest that queen-size beds are bigger than king-size, while others say the opposite!
And what does it mean when they say California king-size? Is it bigger or smaller than usual?
None of this is particularly helpful when you're searching for the best one for your new bed frame.
The best way to handle this is to check the dimensions of your frame very carefully and match these against the measurements for your chosen mattress. It's never good to have a mattress that overhangs the edge of the frame, even by a few centimetres as this will increase the chances of slipping off during your sexual gymnastics.
Also, never be afraid to ask us for help (with the mattress dimensions, that is!), as you want to get this bit right. Homesdirect365 is always happy to oblige, so feel free to ask our friendly team if you need advice on mattress sizing. You can also find a mattress size guide at the bottom of our online store.
Here are a few of the best mattresses for sex:
- Waltham Latex Mattress: The Waltham is a great choice for couples who want a comfortable and supportive mattress for sex due to the PostureTech spring system that makes it bounce back into shape. It has a medium-firm feel and good edge support with the Edgeguard system, as well as anti-bacterial technology in the latex layer.
- Venus Memory-Cool Mattress: The aptly-named Venus Mattress is ideal for people who want a great night's sleep and good support while making love. The high-density foam gives a medium-firm feel and good motion isolation.
- Pocket-Sprung Euro-Top Mattress: The Euro-Top Mattress is a luxury item that is perfect for couples who want the best of the best. It has a plush feel and good edge support with an orthopaedic-grade pocket-coil system. This 12-inch deep mattress comes vacuum-rolled and compressed for easy transport and delivery.
- Cloud Memory Foam Mattress: The Cloud Memory Foam Mattress is a good option for people who want deep comfort and a relaxing experience. The 15cm of memory foam and the quilted top give a medium-firm feel and help with posture while you sleep.
- Eaglesfield Memorysense Foam Powerpack Mattress: This is a great one for people who need support while they sleep and while they play! The ingenious power pack in the centre offers extra lumbar support making it firm but supportive, and the PostureTech spring system provides a cocooning effect.
No matter what your individual needs are, there is a mattress out there that is the perfect one for your sex life. With so many great options to choose from on the Homesdirect365 website, you're sure to find the ideal mattress to help you take your sexual adventures to the next level.
Pocket Sprung Euro Top Mattress
Handy Tips
There are several reasons why you'd want to improve your love life.
Maybe you're trying to spice things up in the bedroom to get that spark back into your relationship. Maybe the stresses and strains of life have affected your sex drive and you're trying to find a way to overcome this.
Or, maybe you just want to try something new as your lovemaking has become stuck in a rut?
Whatever the reason, you're not alone! We've given you some advice in this blog, but here are a few tips to guide you:
- A wood platform bed frame is probably the most 'sex-friendly' choice. It's solid, robust and reliable.
- If your wooden bed frame still seems to be moving, add shims that strengthen the angle between the headboard and frame.
- Medium-soft mattresses are ideal. While memory foam is great, don't get a mattress that has a thick layer of this as it can feel like you are sinking! Latex is perfect for the job, and you can always use a memory foam topper for sleeping.
- Slatted headboards can be used for (safe!) adult play, like tying up. Avoid using handcuffs as these will damage the headboard.
- Look for a bed frame with extra legs (usually between 6 and 8) as this will add to its sturdiness and give you peace of mind.
- A bed with short legs will be less likely to move, sway or creak during sex.
- If you have laminate floor or floorboards in the bedroom, apply foam padded tape to the feet to stop the bed frame from sliding and to keep it noise-free during sex.
Conclusion: The Best Bed Frame For The Sexually Active
The best frame for regular sexual activity is one that is sturdy, spacious, and comfortable. Platform bed frames, sleigh bed frames, canopy/four poster bed frames, and adjustable bed frames are all excellent choices that can provide the support and stability you need for an unforgettable experience.
When choosing a bed frame for sex, it's important to consider your personal preferences, as well as the size and layout of your bedroom. Make sure you measure the dimensions carefully, including the height of the posts if ordering a canopy bed frame. Although the bed is the main focus of the room, you don't want it to overwhelm the space and make it feel cramped.
Quiet bed frames are ideal as there won't be any squeaking and creaking, and a heavy-duty bed frame is less likely to move - flimsy beds will rock, causing the headboard to bang on the wall.
With the right bed frame and mattress, you can create a safe, comfortable, sexy and inviting space that's perfect for those intimate moments.
So, when you want to spice things up, why not head to Homesdirect365 and give your love life a boost?
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